deps: test DataFusion 53

[mbutrovich]

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes #.

Rationale for this change

What changes are included in this PR?

Dependency changes:

• datafusion 52.2.0 → git branch-53 (53.0.0)
• datafusion-datasource, datafusion-physical-expr-adapter, datafusion-spark → git branch-53
• datafusion-spark now with features = ["core"] (workaround for branch-53 bug)
• arrow 57.3.0 → 58.0.0
• parquet 57.3.0 → 58.0.0
• object_store 0.12.3 → 0.13.1

API fixes:

• ExecutionPlan::properties() returns &Arc<PlanProperties> — wrapped cache fields in Arc across 5 files
• Removed ExecutionPlan::statistics() from parquet_writer and shuffle_writer
• HashJoinExec::try_new takes new null_aware: bool param — added false
• PhysicalExprAdapterFactory::create now returns Result — added ? and Ok()
• EncryptionFactory methods return Result<...> instead of Result<..., DataFusionError>
• DefaultPhysicalExprAdapterFactory::create now returns Result — added ?

Feature-gated (blocked on upstream):

• iceberg — gated behind iceberg feature (iceberg-rust still on arrow 57)
• hdfs-opendal — removed from defaults (object_store_opendal still on 0.12)
• hdfs crate needs object_store 0.13 migration (non-default member, deferred)

Remaining warnings:

• CoalesceBatchesExec is deprecated (needs separate migration)
• runtime_env unused when hdfs-opendal is off (expected)

How are these changes tested?

Existing tests.